TEENAGER RELATIONSHIP ACCORDING ISLAM
Asalamualaikum wr. Wb
Honorable the judges.
Dear audience
Happy brothers and sisters
First of all, let’s thank and
pray unto our God Allah Almighty, who has been giving us his mercies and
blessings till we can gather in this speech contest today.
Secondly Sholawat and salam always
be our Prophet Muhammad Peace be Upon him, who has guided us from the darkness
to the brightness.
And I’ll never forget to
appreciate my greatest thank to respectable chairman who has given me time to
deliver my speech in front of you all.
Standing in front of you all I
would like to deliver my speech under the title “What does Islam say about
teenager relationship?”
Who's called the teenagers?
The teenagers are young people ten to forty years old. Which blessed with a
strong body, their skin still tight, shiny, they’re still have critical mind. Teenagers
called puberty. They
want to know about their selves and
want to have boy/girlfriends. They want
to try something that they don’t know before.
Teenager is the most
memorable time because it gives a lot of life experience. Teenager is the time
to make many achievements, both academic and non-academic. Depends on people
who can use their time well. Teenager is a period of unstable and the time a
teenager grows up to find identity. They want to be the
best for their future. But on the other hand they want to enjoy their
times by having fun. But they also have to determine for their future.
Teenagers are closely with the technology in their
daily life. They always bringing Handphone, and the effect of that they want to
follow the trend. For example, style of western people about dressing. Some of them already familiar with alcohol, cigarettes, even drugs and free sex. They assume that if they do not
consume these items, then they are not valued or outdated people.
Teenager is
a social people too, as a social people relationship
is an important requirement for humans. Relationship
is fitrah as human being, stated in surah Al Hujurat
verse 13th :
“O mankind, indeed We have created
you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one
another”
Islam is Rahmatan lil 'alamin. Islam was educated us how to make good relationship even from childhood, teenager until adult
There are several tips how Islam teach
us about relationship among teenager:
1.
Keep
a view
Keep
a View here has two
meanings, the first view with the eyes, which is seeing and enjoying the body
parts that are attractive and exciting sexual desire, the second inner view
that is, lust arising in the heart to have sexual relations (keep from syahwat)
2.
Protect
the aurat
Aurat,
according to Islam, human
body must be covered by clothing. We instruct
to covering our genital, for women is covering all body by clothing and veil
except face and feet.
3.
Don't
date
Dating or meet
boy and girl in the someplace just both of two is forbidden. The third beside
them is syaitan.
4.
Remind
each other of the goodness
This is very important
because, when one Muslim reminds another to do goodness and if one is reminded
to do something good, then the reward for them
all.
In conclusion, wherever and wherever we are and with whom we associate
we must be able to adjust according to the rules of
the Islamic religion.
Thus, the speech that I can deliver. Sorry if
there are any mistakes. Thank you for your attention
Billahi Taufik wal hidayah
Wassalamualaikum.wr.wb
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